It’s time to make the move, you and your partner had the talk, and you’re ready to try pegging.
You might not know where to start, what you’ll need, or which positions will be the most comfortable and enjoyable for you and your partner. Don’t worry. We’ve got you covered.
Various positions are applicable when you start pegging, and when things get down and dirty, there are a few more that your partner may like as they adjust to this new sexual aphrodisiac. The most crucial part of pegging is to ensure your partner (the one pegging and being pegged) is always comfortable.
What Will You Need?
Before you jump into the act, it’s essential to know what you’ll need. You and your partner might have already had the talk about sizes, styles, and what they’d like.
The following items are pegging essentials:
1. A Solid Strap on Harness:
If you’re going to be using a strap-on dildo, a good harness won’t let you down. The last thing you want is your dildo moving around during the act. Some harnesses allow for a double-sided dildo to be attached. Others have a little pocket for your vibrating egg. This could make it much more exciting for you and your partner.
2. A Pegger and/or Dildo:
Depending on which your partner is comfortable with, one of these will definitely be needed for penetration. A pegger is somewhat similar to a butt plug, whereas a dildo can resemble more of a penis. Again, there are different shapes and sizes to choose from to make the experience as personal and enjoyable as possible.
3. O-Rings:
These are great to have. Make sure to buy different sizes and styles. An O-ring resembles a cock ring and can give the recipient some extra pleasure.
4. Lube:
You’ll need lots of it. The anus is not self-lubricating, so it’s essential to lubricate before the act. This will prevent discomfort, friction, and tearing and make sex more fun.
The Top 9 Pegger Position You Need to Try – With Bonus
1. The First-Timer:
This position is perfect for those experiencing pegging for the first time. Your partner will need to get on all fours, basically in “doggy style”. When going in anally, your partner will be able to guide you on how deep and at what pace. They will need to move back and forth slowly on the pegger or dildo until they reach a pace that suits their desires. They will also feel more relaxed in this position, although it might still take some time. Remember to lube up and stimulate the anus before going in.
2. Spooning:
This position is not only an easy cover for an afternoon quickie, but it also feels terrific being so close to your partner. You’ll need your partner to lie on their side in front of you, with their top leg slightly brought up to their chest. This will make access easier and less uncomfortable. If there’s a height or length difference, add a pillow under the hips to reach maximum comfort. After you’ve stimulated and lubricated your partner’s anus, you’re going to insert the dildo or pegger slowly. Be sure to rub their leg or back during this intimate moment to help them relax.
3. The Starter Gun:
Another good starting position is the starter gun. This is great because your partner can control the depth and pace whilst making out with you. First, you’ll need to sit down on a stool or chair stable but small. Your partner will then climb onto your lap, facing you. You can then slowly insert the pegger or dildo and have them ride you at a comfortable pace. The best part? You’ll be able to see the pleasure on their face as they ride you.
4. Flat Doggy Style:
Unlike regular doggy style, this position allows for deeper penetration to be more comfortable. Your partner will have to lie flat on their stomach, but their hips lifted slightly. Use a pillow under them for comfort. You’ll then basically be lying on top of them whilst penetrating from behind. Holding on to their hips will help you regulate your strokes and could just make the whole ordeal that much sexier.
5. The Strap-On Stroke:
What an exciting position. Although it’s a bit more advanced, it’s definitely worth the try. Your partner will need to lie flat on their back with their legs in the air. Once you’ve penetrated your partner, they can rest their legs either on your shoulder or wrap them around your hips. The great thing about this position is the hands-free mode. Your partner might choose to spread their cheeks for you, so why not return the favor. Use your free hand to help them masturbate whilst you thrust.
6. The Daring Dip:
If your partner likes to be submissive, this is the position to help you take control. Your partner would need to lay down on their stomach. Tell them to stretch their arms above their hair and hold onto a pillow. You’ll be hovering above them, on your tiptoes, and only penetrating them with the tip of the toy. A little tease to get things started. Hold on to their hips to help stabilize you, especially if you start penetrating deeper. The friction from the bed might add to their arousal sp have them hump their hand or a toy to get them to the edge.
7. Prostate Perfection:
For partners with penises, the prostate is a little ball of gold. It stimulates them similar to a G-Spot. This position is similar to the one mentioned before, but it has a little twist to hit the prostate every time. Your partner would once again need to be on their back. This time, lifting their hips to the height of yours. You’ll enter them from between their legs, whilst they hold on to their ankles for support. They can also rest their legs on your shoulders if that’s easier for them, as long as those hips stay in the air.
8. Pegging Paradise:
This is a position only to be tried by those who are ready for some next-level orgasms. This position takes a certain level of skill, so don’t feel bad if you can’t get it right the first time. Your partner would have to rest their knees on their chest at first. Opening them up for penetration. Once penetrated, they can rest their feet on your chest. Your partner would then need to lift up their pelvis as you take a position on your knees. They can then hold on to your hips or ankles to keep them in position whilst you thrust. Remember to help them keep their balance. You can do this either by holding on to their hips, or their legs. Remember that this position is not easily performed, and if you suffer from backaches or problems, rather don’t attempt it if you’re the one being penetrated.
9. Reverse Cowboy/Cowperson:
A position as old as time, but still a good one. You’ll be the one on your back this time. Your partner will get on top, but this time, facing towards your feet. With their ankles in reach, you can hold on to them as they ride you. This will help them keep their balance as well as keep a hand free for some masturbation.
Pegging Fantasy
There are many positions available for pegging. Chances are, you won’t find the perfect position on the first go, but practice makes perfect, right? So again, it’s important that you have an open line of communication with your partner to ensure that the sexual act you are performing feels comfortable, and of course, heavily enjoyable.
